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Living in Milton,FL. Shane works at Family Promise and Valerie is a Independent Beauty Consultant for Mary Kay. Shane and Valerie have been married for 17 years with two wonderful children, Austen 13 yrs old and Gabrielle 10yrs old.

Monday, November 14, 2011

A Light at the End of the Tunnel


Wow, our time is almost done here and when we first begun we thought that it would take forever.  Let me take you back to the last post and fill you in on our time for the past few months.
I wrote last when I was on leave from work for my surgery. I ended up having to take a total of 4 weeks off from work. I am so glad I did it, I feel so much better. The hot flashes were crazy and irritating. I couldn't sleep, so I did get a low dose of hormone therapy.  No problems as long as I remember to take them.  I give praise to God for the success.

We finished up the spring with Austen playing soccer.  It was a great experience and he had a great soccer coach that was patient and easy going.  They ended in 4th place.  The kids went to Boys Ranch to see their grandparents during spring break. I had to work and Shane worked on school. It was nice because Shane and I could be alone for a little bit.
In June, we traveled to Killeen, TX. for Shane’s cousins’ wedding. I had my first experience to seeing the bad fires.  As we drove, the fires were just burning on the side of the road and in the fields.  Everything was charred.  It was over 100 degrees and the wedding was outside. It was still beautiful and then we went inside for the reception.  We also celebrated Austen’s birthday.  We invited his friend Colton and we all went to Six Flags for the day. We got there right when it opened and stayed until closing. Austen’s favorite ride is the Titan.
My dad went ill and had edema in his leg, my step mom had eye surgery and my little brother Brian had blood clots in one of his legs.  This happened all at once and I had an overwhelming desire to go help them. So we all packed up and headed to Georgia.  We spent a week there. I cleaned house and cooked, Shane fixed and repaired things in the house.  Dad and I went and had pedicures, Brian was able to get out of the hospital but was not out of the clear for another couple of weeks. My dad went to the doctor and found out his leg had a cyst that rupture in his leg causing blood to pool behind his knee.  It was very painful.  My step mom, Gail, had a hole in part of her eye causing her to have depth perception problems and cloudiness.  She had eye surgery and had to sit, lay and walk with her head staying face down 24/7 for several weeks. But as our time there was ending, she was able to sit up for short periods. She is back to work and doing much better. While we were there we did take a day to have some fun and we went to the Coke-cola Museum.  That was very cool! We tried all the sodas made all over the country, watched a 4-D movie and bought a few souvenirs.
Even though Shane had to continue school for the summer, He and the kids did come to my work to swim. They also went bowling several times and Austen likes going to Books-a-Million to sit and read for hours.
 Of course August we started school again. Shane did what’s called practicum. This is where he works in a intern setting as a student to get hands on experience while getting credit hours. This week, he will finish up two jobs. One is for the VOW doing premarital education. The other is for the East Texas Medical Center for the behavioral and mental center working in group sessions. He has really enjoyed both areas of work and has learned a lot.  Austen is still doing online home school and doing well. He has many portfolios to do and he continues to progress faster than the teachers like.  He also has live lessons on Fridays where he can virtually see his teacher and other students in his class. He is taking sign language which I’m excited about.  Gabrielle was officially tested and diagnosed with dyslexia. She is pulled out of regular class every day and has several teachers that work with her.  Her teachers have made accommodations and she is doing very well. Her reading continues to get easier for her and her math skills are coming along great.  When she started school, everyone had a timed test and she only made it through half the test which gave her a failing grade. After the 2nd six weeks she not only completed the test but she only missed three, giving her a 97.  We are so proud of her!
My work has been steady and I was pleased to get a good evaluation with a nice raise.  I have been working really hard to reach a goal of High Achievers. I have been close a couple of times.  We have had some big resident activities this year. My favorite that I launch each year is our Texas Against Crime event in October. This year we decided to have a volleyball tournament. I was able to promote three teams. I had shirts made for a Police team, Fire team, and Regency Park team.  I also went around to businesses and got door prizes donated and got vendors we work with to donate money for the winning team.  It ended up being a great success! The State Representative showed up, we had a fire truck come and several police officers and fireman.   Many of the residents came and the Regency Park team won the game!
Now that it is November, our time is very close to the end here in Longview, TX.  We have started packing and looking for jobs and planning our move to Bradenton, FL.  I have two brothers, Victor and Eric that live there.  Shane wants to do his master program at Argosy University.  We are planning Shane’s graduation which is December 10th , go to grandma and grandpa Nation Christmas on December 11th, then get the moving truck on Dec 15th. We will pack everything and then Shane, the kids and my mom will head to Pensacola, Fl on the 16th.  My mom is going to stay with Carolyn Bush, a family/ friend until we can find a house to buy.  However, they will drop off furniture and stuff there and mom will carry on to Bradenton with Shane and kids until after Christmas.  I will stay in Longview and continue working until Shane has found a job. That way we have a steady income during the transition. This of course is plan B, our prayer is that something will come up for me and Shane before the move so we don’t have to be separated.
My mom has stayed relatively healthy, we were able to get her a large flat screen TV for her birthday, and she is very happy to have purchased a lift chair.  She also was able to attend the annual Encore retreat with all her church friends.
 I am writing this while we are traveling back from spending Thanksgiving with Shane’s siblings (and families) and parents. Everyone was there except Jill and Joel and kids who are still in Africa.  Mom and her friend Karen came along and we all had fun playing games, hiking, and taking lots of pictures.

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